{"id":1014,"date":"2016-04-08T23:23:48","date_gmt":"2016-04-09T04:23:48","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/?p=1014"},"modified":"2016-04-08T23:30:15","modified_gmt":"2016-04-09T04:30:15","slug":"authenticity","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/authenticity\/","title":{"rendered":"Authenticity"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Earlier this week, I read a blog post titled <a href=\"https:\/\/medium.com\/life-learning\/this-is-what-i-do-before-8-am-5ff27fcc985c#.9jwvfjeti\">This Is What I Do Before 8 AM<\/a>.  It was written by a funny guy named Jon Westernberg, and it started like this:<\/p>\n<blockquote><p>I\u2019m an entrepreneur. And a writer. And a creative. I do a lot of different things, a lot of different kinds of work. I know what the cliche says\u200a\u2014\u200aI should be a hugely focused and productive person, who lives like a superhuman and breathes pure and untainted inspiration.<\/p>\n<p>But here\u2019s the truth. I\u2019m a total mess. A hot mess. I run my life and my business and my writing career and my speaking engagements with a sense of organised chaos. Do you know why?<\/p>\n<p>Because I\u2019m a human.<\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p>Suffice to say, I highly recommend reading the whole article.<\/p>\n<p>Even though Jon never uses this word in his post, I think his article is essentially and primarily a call for <em>authenticity<\/em>. &#8220;To thine own self be true&#8221; and all that. And I think that&#8217;s great. Especially on social media, it&#8217;s easy to filter our posts, our comments, our thoughts to present only the best possible version of ourselves. But that&#8217;s not real life. That&#8217;s not the real me.<\/p>\n<p>Here&#8217;s the reality: I talk a good game. But I&#8217;m pretty bad at putting that talk into action. I don&#8217;t always practice radical candor. I&#8217;ve been terrible at flossing for the past two months. I&#8217;m behind on my advancement reviews, and <em>very<\/em> behind on a promised L3 recommendation. As the timestamp of this post itself shows, my discipline at posting on Wednesdays is slipping. <\/p>\n<p>And I don&#8217;t know if things will ever get better.<\/p>\n<p>&#8230;but I&#8217;m beginning to think that&#8217;s OK.<\/p>\n<p>As Jon concludes: we&#8217;re only human. This shit is hard.<\/p>\n<p>But it&#8217;s also the only shit worth doing. <\/p>\n<p>So let&#8217;s give it our best shot. And when we fail, as we inevitably will&#8230;let&#8217;s pick each other up and keep on trucking.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Here&#8217;s the reality.<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":63,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"closed","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"footnotes":"","_links_to":"","_links_to_target":""},"categories":[1],"tags":[],"language":[],"class_list":["post-1014","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-uncategorized"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1014","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/63"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=1014"}],"version-history":[{"count":11,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1014\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1027,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/1014\/revisions\/1027"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=1014"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=1014"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=1014"},{"taxonomy":"language","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/bearz\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/language?post=1014"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}