{"id":1078,"date":"2017-09-19T11:00:39","date_gmt":"2017-09-19T15:00:39","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/?p=1078"},"modified":"2017-09-17T14:49:32","modified_gmt":"2017-09-17T18:49:32","slug":"breakfast-of-champions","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/2017\/09\/19\/breakfast-of-champions\/","title":{"rendered":"Breakfast of Champions"},"content":{"rendered":"<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\" wp-image-1050 alignleft\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/08\/EDB.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"176\" height=\"176\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/08\/EDB.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/08\/EDB-150x150.jpg 150w, https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/08\/EDB-125x125.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 176px) 100vw, 176px\" \/>Earlier this year I was the Head Judge of the SCG Modern Classic in Richmond, Virginia. During round one, I was out walking the floor and decided that I would take a call near me. As I delivered my ruling, I thought to myself: \u00a0\u201cI\u2019m in this shirt for a reason. I know this ruling; I know that I\u2019m correct.\u201d<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">Spoilers: I was wrong.<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">After walking away from the call, I was approached by one of my floor judges, <span class='judge-tooltip'><a href='https:\/\/apps.magicjudges.org\/judges\/dci\/3209492279' >Dave Tosto<\/a><span class='avatar'><img width='200' height='200' src='https:\/\/apps.magicjudges.org\/dci\/avatar?dci=3209492279&size=200'><\/span><\/span>. He asked me about the ruling and whether I was correct. I was still pretty confident that I was. (I was still wrong.) But I told him I would put my head together with another judge and double check. \u00a0After my sounding board told me that I was wrong, I went back and paused the match so I could tell the player I spoke with earlier some words I hope to never have to say in a judge shirt:<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">\u201cI was wrong.\u201d<\/span><\/i><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The player was upset, rightly so. We chatted. I gave him the correct ruling. I apologized. After the match we chatted some more, he was still upset, rightly so. He was very understanding and continued to play Magic on Sunday. But I walked away from the call frustrated and grasping for purchase. \u00a0When I followed up with <span class='judge-tooltip'><a href='https:\/\/apps.magicjudges.org\/judges\/dci\/3209492279' >Dave<\/a><span class='avatar'><img width='200' height='200' src='https:\/\/apps.magicjudges.org\/dci\/avatar?dci=3209492279&size=200'><\/span><\/span>, he told me that he overheard the call and was pretty sure I was wrong but was afraid to step in. I asked him to say some words on the experience.<\/span><\/p>\n<blockquote><p><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">There are going to be times when you watch a better and more experienced judge do something that seems wrong to you. A voice in your head will probably say &#8220;they know what they&#8217;re doing&#8221; or &#8220;I must have missed some key piece of information here&#8221;, but you need to tell that voice to shut it. Even a level 3 judge with 7+ years of experience is still a human, and guess what? Humans make mistakes.<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"><br \/>\n<\/span><\/i><i><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">You should always speak up if you have a feeling that something is being done wrong. I didn&#8217;t speak up today and it cost a player a game. Even if it&#8217;s during a live call, you can say &#8216;Hey, I have a question about this, can we talk away from the table?&#8217; Assuming that any judge or player involved is a reasonable person, none of them will get mad at you for taking the time to be sure we give the correct ruling.<\/span><\/i><\/p><\/blockquote>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">So Dave learned something from this, but did I learn something? Turns out I learned a whole bunch about the MTR (not going to be wrong about THAT one again). I learned that it is ok to double-check my rulings once in awhile, regardless of what role I\u2019m in. However, most importantly I remembered that from failure we can find feedback. \u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\">The inspiration for this piece came from two places: both this experience and a revelation from a very topical fortune cookie:<\/span><\/p>\n<figure id=\"attachment_1079\" aria-describedby=\"caption-attachment-1079\" style=\"width: 720px\" class=\"wp-caption alignnone\"><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-full wp-image-1079\" src=\"http:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/09\/Fortunate-Feedback.jpg\" alt=\"\" width=\"720\" height=\"540\" srcset=\"https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/09\/Fortunate-Feedback.jpg 720w, https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/09\/Fortunate-Feedback-300x225.jpg 300w, https:\/\/blogs.magicjudges.org\/feedback\/files\/2017\/09\/Fortunate-Feedback-125x94.jpg 125w\" sizes=\"auto, (max-width: 720px) 100vw, 720px\" \/><figcaption id=\"caption-attachment-1079\" class=\"wp-caption-text\">Photo by Angela Aliff<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n<p><span style=\"font-weight: 400\"> Let\u2019s eat.<\/span><\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Earlier this year I was the Head Judge of the SCG Modern Classic in Richmond, Virginia. During round one, I was out walking the floor and decided that I would take a call near me. As I delivered my ruling, I thought to myself: \u00a0\u201cI\u2019m in this shirt for a reason. 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